Has it happened?

It's been so long since I wrote last, but would like to start up again. My life has changed completely in the last year. I bought a condo on my own. Began a new and wonderful job. I've become very satisfied with my life as it stand and am completely confident that I am were I am supposed to be at this time in my life.

My sister is thinking about starting a family this fall, both an exciting and almost unreal event. Most of my friends are either married, engaged, living with their significant other or have recently found someone new and loaded with incredible amounts of potential.

I've met countless men and guys, both jerks and sweethearts, over the last three years and none have come close to what I want or need. Some "superficial" things that the person I end up with should have, such as a bachelors degree, a career, little or no baggage (mental or physical), looks, charm, sense of humor, desire for a family, a positive family life...umm...and I could continue, but I think it's clear what I am essentially waiting for.

At this time, I am more or less seeing one person(SBM), just met another (smitten), and am apparently still in the eyes of a few others, some that had chances that they did not take (DB), others hoping to have theirs...

I leave all my thoughts, desires and wishes to the plan that's been laid out for me. It will happen if it is meant to happen, with whomever it's meant to happen with, when it is time. And I'll know exactly when and where that moment is the second I fall into it.

Has it happened?